" You ask yourself, am I ready for this adventure? "
A central question that many parents-to-be ask themselves. In today's intense times, in which we all live a full and challenging everyday life, there is often little time to optimally prepare for the new role - the role of parent. There is little room to prepare yourself emotionally for this new stage in your life. And to listen to your own inner questions that this probably biggest life change brings with it!
During pregnancy, it's not just the mother-to-be's body that changes, but also the thoughts of the mother and father suddenly start to write a whole new script. Time and again, I hear about the wonderful, mindful thoughts that parents-to-be have about the upcoming responsibilities. They grapple with the high demands of juggling everything and at the same time being able to continue living their own lives and fulfilling their own needs. And questions often arise about the financial and spatial situation. And, of course, the current and changing standard of living.
A good start in life - and in the new role
Fortunately, many of these questions can be answered by taking a closer look. The most important aspect is to realize that you can already change a lot today in order to arrive stress-free in your new responsibility. Your baby is already here and part of the system. The baby also wants to grow on a physical and psychological level. It is ready and looking forward to intensifying the connection with you and strengthening the relationship even more together. A good start in life and in your new role as a parent is the basis and, so to speak, the foundation stone for your life's journey together - and is therefore extremely important!
Strengthen the connection to your own child
You don't yet know what your child will look like and what character it will bring with it. But as a mother, you can feel the living being directly inside you. And as a father, you may occasionally be lucky enough to feel the child with your hands on mom's belly.
A deep and solid connection, also on a spiritual level, strengthens you and your child. The intimate connection allows you to become a fulfilled mommy or happy daddy with ease and confidence. The close teamwork will boost your self-confidence and motivation. This loving relationship is directly linked to your health and the development of your baby. On average, people with good relationships are happier and live longer. They have a stronger immune system and more positive life energy.
Mastering borderline situations successfully
Yes, there will be moments when you experience your own limits and stress with a newborn baby. One of the reasons why the most beautiful adventure in the world is so intense is that we can increasingly learn to react in this very moment. There is no avoiding it or putting it off until later. Often we hardly have time to think. We are challenged to act in the exact moment of action. In the here and now. It helps a lot to know good and simple "tools" for stressful everyday life in advance. To be aware of your own oases of strength that you can use for yourself. These valuable resources will help you to reactivate the calm and serenity you need so that you can fully enjoy being a parent.The connection with people give youryour own life its value and meaning.
What happens in your child's mindset in the first few months?
A baby's primary goal in the first few hours is to grow and thrive. It wants to survive and secure its own existence. But what happens on a child's mental level during these intense first months? And what effects does this development have on the rest of life? When does the baby begin to leave the so-called symbiotic relationship with the mother? What emotional injuries can occur during these phases? And how can you best support these processes in your child?
Meet and welcome with your heart - unique BABY LOVE training course
Would you like to deepen your knowledge and expand your awareness? A good start is also important to you and you want to consciously welcome your child with your heart?
Then discover the unique and fulfilling Baby Love training course (weekend course, 1.5 days, Friday evening & Saturday) from AKABE - the Academy for Consciousness and Energy. We thank you for your mindful preparation for your new role - the adventure of being a parent - and look forward to welcoming you to the next Baby Love course soon!
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This wonderful blog entry was written by Raphaela Jud.
She is herself a mommy of two and trained in the fields of psychology and depth psychology. With AKABE, she is committed to achieving fulfillment in life through modern personality development offers.
True to the motto: more life in your life!
